omukyala nomwami balina amaka gabwe nga balina omukozi , bwebagenda okweyagalako basanga omukozi asibye ebintu byonna nga aduse! naye nga abalekedewo emere nenva nga nfumbe.bakubaganya ebirowoozo nebakanya nti wabidde ebyomunju emere nenva aziresemu obutwa! balina kapa awaka nebateesa basoke bawe kapa eno ku nva balabe oba mulimu obutwa,kapa bwetwafa bagamba nti temuliri butwa munva,naye neyafa nabo kwekulya emere nenva.naye omutabani asooka bweyakomawo yabagamba nti asanze kapa nga efudde, olwokuba bali basomi nyo basalawo buli omu ayogere ebibibye nga tanafa, omukyala yagamba mwami wenti yali aganza omusajja ayali aleta amata awaka, omwami nagamba mukyala we nti nange mbadde nganza omukozi era ali lubuto kati!!!!naye baba bali mwebyo omutabani omulala yakomawo awaka nabagamba nti kapa yali etomeddwa motoka, bonna webategerera nti kapa teyafudde butwa!!!

Wanno tewali kyamaki kyetagisa kola kuba ndaba bombi bagwa dulo obubonero busatu kubusatu,naye mpozi omukyala aba naye yetaga okudayo ewa omusajja wa maata akubemu ekyapa nga omukozi kyagenze nakyo,then awo badde eli mukama benenye obufumbo bwabwe butambule bukwaku.Mhhhh naye oba twabaki,never satisfied with what u have,always looking for more.Altho somewhere,somehow the ka story looks farfetched.

Embeera si nyangu eno olwokuba nti mwembi tewaba akyesiga munne.

omukwano ogutalimu kwesigangana ate nagwo gubeera muzibu nyo,

kale nze ndaba nti mubeera musigadde kutuusa mukolo nti ono mwami

n'omukyala. Wabula n'okusonyiwagana nakyo kikulu.

There is a famous saying; Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder-, and with that assurance, some women have embarked on a mission to redefine beauty, with fake hair extensions, fake nails, for some, fake boobs, but sincerely ladies, why fake it, when you are blessed with the real thing? Women today are evolving faster than you can blink.



Gone are the days, when the woman was the submissive creature, nowadays most women, are the controllers of their own destinies, which is commendable. But what is evolving too, is the definition of beauty- from real woman, to made up woman, and as a man, I’m getting confused. What is considered beautiful in today’s woman? I have a female friend, who works for a bank.



She spends all her weekends, in salons, beautifying herself- one week it’s the fake nails, the other week, it’s the fake eyelashes, and recently, she even enquired about breast tightening (talk of “beauty evolution”).But when I asked her why she tortures herself, she claimed, she just wants to look “beautiful”, and also, she is looking for a man to settle down with, hence the endless salon visits. And that is where I believe most women get it wrong.



Why would a woman wear so much fake stuff, and still claim to be looking for a real man, when she herself isn’t “real”, moreover, I believe most men can tell if they are attracted to a woman, whether she has fake nails or not. And a woman, who is not under any pressure, to see if her fake lashes are still on, or the hair piece is in place, can be herself, and that is one of the most attractive things to a man- just being yourself.



I must admit, some of us men, don’t know what we want. One day we say we want natural women, the next day; we are following Lil Kim wannabees all over the place. It’s a shame, but some men are enticed by the “fakeness” of a woman, essentially because we are visual species, we love the “appearance” of a woman, and I believe, that is one of the reasons, why some women are forced to go the extra mile, in trying to define what we men find beautiful and appealing to the eye.



Another reason for “faking it”, could be what I call the “Hollywood effect”. If the singer Beyonce, is rocking long hair extensions, then its long hair extensions for our sisters down here. Most women in Kampala, if not the majority, are copy-cats of western fashion, from head to toe, which is not bad.



But, it only becomes a problem, when the copying gets out of hand, and before you know it, what is considered “fashionable” in the western world, is considered “beautiful” to our ladies down here.



Case in point is the fake nails, fake eye lashes, hair pieces that some of these ladies put on especially on such important days like kwanjulas, graduation ceremonies, wedding days, all in the name of looking “beautiful,”they are not a true measure of beauty.



Now ladies, be proud of what God blessed you with, besides, what is more beautiful than inner beauty? Let go of the fake everything, we want to see the real you day and night.

Bannange ebyo byebyembi byebagamba nti bisekelwa. Munju mulimu engeli yokutya okufa kuba tekumanyilwa. Laba ebyava mukutya bombi omwami nomukyala benzi lukulwe era nga bulijjo omwami kasita aganza omukozi nga enamusa ejja kudda kunyooge tajja kuddayo kuwa mukyala kitibwa wadde wabawo obutakanya wakati womwami nomukyala mungeli eri mwena jemutegedde omwami tekikutwala kwewagika mukozi wadde amanyi okukola emiilimu jawaka wewa ekitibwa nabaanabo notoswaza kitibwakyawaka ate ye omukyala ali cheap nnyo nnyo nnyo nga omusunda mata gweyalaba mubasajja okuganza bwaba yasalawo okwenda yandiyenze ku gwebamukubila nga atunulwako era nga yemaala naye omusunda mata! ! simuwa beetu nti ayende kuba ebili muju yabwe tetubitegedde naye okwewebuula okutuka awo nedda nedda nedda nyabo.Kati mukilaba omukozi ono kali magezi ate nga mukujukuju yasiba ebintu byonna nga agenze kupanga maka omwami mwanamusanga anti ali lubuto naye omugabo gwomumaka alinako nnyo gwate omwami naye yamuganza namufunyisa olubuto mukutegerakwe yamanya nti alina kubuuka nabintu bulijjo byalabilila oba okuyonja atandikile okwo obulamu ate wewunye bulijjo bibadde bimusa amababanyi ngalinda bukye yekole ekigenyi .Ekyokuleka ngafumbye emeere tekimujisako musango nebwaba nga teyatekamu butwa mukaseera ako wetumanyila nti batubye nemeere tugiyiwa awatali kwebuuza osoka kunyiga kumutwe mwana wattu ebintu nebwemuba nga temubizuule emeere eyibwa buyibwa take out nyinji nnyo . Nebyama tebyandisatuuse kutuuka kusitayilo eyo. Naye nga bwemumanyi Katonda amazima tagakweka era twandifunye okuyiga mukintu kino netuba besimbu mumaka baganda bange , omukozi nakasajja akasunda mata??? kibi nnyo nnyo nnyo buli ludda.

Its really unfortunate that marriages a failling these days mostly bse of obwenzi.In that case,i add that marriage on da list of failed ones but before that,since bonna benzi there is a bit of hope if they accept to change.But even though they agree that they a gonna change,u can't really be sure that dey will.so,what i would advise is that they both first find out what made dem go for a friendly match outside.awo olumala ekyo okukisortinga then maybe they can try to push on da marriage.