A man checked into a hotel in Brazil. There was a computer in his room, so he decided to send e-mail to his wife. However, he accidentally typed the wrong e-mail address, and without realizing his error, he sent the e-mail.



Meanwhile .............somewhere in Sutherland a widow had just arrived home from her husband's funeral. The widow decided to check her email, expecting messages from relatives and friends. After reading the first message, she fainted.



The widow's son rushed into the room, found his mother on the floor, and saw the computer screen which Read:



To: My Loving Wife

Subject: I've arrived

Date: June 3 , 2006

I know you're surprised to hear from me. They have computers here now, and you are allowed to send e-mails to your loved ones. I've just arrived and have been checked in. I see that everything has been prepared for your arrival tomorrow.

Looking forward to seeing you then! Hope your journey is as uneventful as mine was.

P.s. It is damn hot down here!!



maama nyabo awo kyali kika!bw'obeera gwe?okola ki?

Oba nze nkola kii?

Ntandikilawo okubuuza eyatade enjaga mumele gyenalide egulo.

Oba okwesuna ndabe oba mbade ndoota.

Bwenkizuula nti si kilooto, nga netegeka wena'gwa nga nzilise.

Mpozzi nga omusajja wange mbadde simwagala,naye bwemba mbadde mwagala nyoo nsoka nenzijukila amaziga genakulukusiza nga affude awo bwemala nenebaza Katonda okuba nti atuwadde akaganya tutedemu tubele fembi ela nga ntandika kusiba nguggu.Elyo ebugumu lyeyayogedeko mu e-mail mba ndi mugumu nti tugya kulimanyila,gwa ate kati obutiti tetwabumanyila?Ekidilila kutandika kusibula ba mikwano nabanganda nga ninda lunaku.

My husband had a child with another woman

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Dear Counsellor,

I have been in a very stable relationship with my husband for the past few years. We are both working and had decided to have children at least after we had become financially- stable.



A few months ago, I learnt that he impregnated someone and she was due to have a baby in June. The baby has come and, of course, he and his family are very excited, this being his first son. He makes regular visits to the woman but he says he has made it clear to her that he is there for the boy.



The woman also calls him regularly. They had a very big party at the his parents’ home to celebrate the birth of the boy. I am very distressed and let down because of the betrayal and long-term reminder of the infidelity that has come in our midst. I have lost all trust and I am in unbearable pain.



My husband says it was just a fling after we had had an argument and that he realised his mistake when it was too late.



My mother thinks I should forgive him because we are married and he has been so honest about the whole issue. She also thinks he genuinely loves me.



My friends also think it is just one of those selfish, malicious women who are there to spoil people’s marriages, but my boyfriends have advised me to leave the marriage.



I feel extremely let down and I do not know whether I will ever forgive my husband. I have been faithful. Although I have always had men who are better off than him making advances, I thought I would not cheat on him. Can I keep the marriage going despite the fact that I do not have any child with him, or should I let go?



He told me his family favours the other woman because she is richer than me and now has a son, what else do they need? It hurts; you should have seen them cut the cake on my wedding!

Have you ever been in a similar situation? What did you do? Please advise me.







OMUKYALA ONO ANONYA KUMAGEEZI;AKOLE ATYA?????????????????

Am sure this lady is going through alot of pain at the moment both emotionally and psychologically and should not make any decision when she is still that vulnerable.She has heard the advice of her most close people and all the advise she will get from other pple will either be to encourage her leave or stay.

so,personally i think the best thing to do now is to take a break and take time to heal the wounds then look deep down her heart,pray about it and decide what she personally wants because it is her who is going to be in those situations so she should gauge herself and see if she can manage to continue with the marriage or not.

This is a decision that is going to affect her for the rest of her life,so she needs to take it when sober to avoid future regrets.But she should also try to consider all factors.

I hope my advise helps.