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These are two different professions that some unknowing people try to wrap up in one. The difference between these and the traditional Senga, is that senga knows the people she's talking with personally, them and their history and many hidden secrets. Senga used to work hand in hand with the mother and some other informed family members, to help the niece and her husband. A good Senga worked on a promise of a better day, not on threats of he'll leave you. She never character assasinated people, the tall are like this and the short are otherwise. That creates a society of uptight people, who know deep down that love is just a word. And I think this is the type of attitude being cultivated by this senga here. A marriage is not all about sex. Many people are into marriages where because of illnesses and other weaknesses there is no sex at all, or just a little of it. Love is the beginning and the end of relationships and marriages.
To be able to do their work right, a marriage counsellor and a sex therapist have years of general education and some more of specialisation. What they basically do is ask questions and work together with their patients to evaluate their conditions. Their most asked question is whether there is love or mutual liking between the patients. Whether they have any interest to stay together. Then they ask what the problem is. Because then, whatever their problem is, it's solvable. Humans are not perfect creatures, and this is mainly because of their imperfect bodies. For example, in certain circumstances and as times goes by, these imperfect bodies, of both males and females become weaker. Both men and women loose their libido, their performances, their instruments weaken. Nature knows the reasons why. I personally think that in this way, love shines through. People learn to live with their loved ones' weaknesses. And though some help could be employed from certain tricks and know hows, basicaly it's love that will see you through. I hope this Senga Agnes of connect finds a way to incooperate this in her advices, so it doesn't sound like it's written for the notice board of some red-lights-on 24/7 five cents' hump-hump lodge in the Kisenyi area.
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