i always ask myself what a man usually think before he gets attracted to a woman.

sweetie vivie

I think young men or rather boys fall in love just the same way that young women/girls do. But once a boy get's hurt, most of them they never really allow themselves to get into that deep passionate situation again. They become rather practical, and get into most of their love affairs with their minds rather than with their hearts. From then onwards it's all about convenience and prestige.

Sometimes you just take one look, and something clicks inside, like something is fallen in place, a connection is happening. It could be a laughter, walk, eyes, presentation that triggers the feeling. It could be something you never dreamt could attract you to a woman. But seeing it on a certain somebody, find it pulling on your heart strings. Other times, you set off jokingly, because a hunter hunts. You find yourself trapped by her beauty, personality etc.. And there are times, when she just grows on you. You've been seeing her around for quite sometime, and one day it just occurs to you, it's urgent to move closer.