Naye abaami kyebakola kituufu mukwebulungula tabeere committed nolweekyo asobola okutandikira waaba akomye bwakusanga naawe tewakwatagana dda oluusi ekyo kyekirina okumukolebwa ategeere nti naawe oliko ebirala ebyokkola nti totudde awo kufunya ngalo nakukuula bumuli nti does he love me does he love me not............Awo wolabira egos zaabwe nga zirinyiriddwa nga sseddume endala emulivvudde

Maybe it's better to write him a letter, an email, a fax or call him on the phone? Let someone else do it for you. Put someone else to telling him you've been grazing out of the fence? Then at least he'd be the one to start the accusations and all you have to do is admit it's true. Saves you the introduction. How about pretending to be talking about it in your sleep? And Kaliba, instead of your friend's telling him outright when they were making love, why didn't she try calling him by her new lovers name, with extra passion maybe?

KULWANGE SIYINZA KUMANYA OBA KUKIRIZA NTI WABERAYO OKWAWUKA NGA NKUSIIMYE. KINO NKIJJA KUKITANGE NE NJABO BAGENDA KUWEZA EMYAKA 50 MUBUFUMBO NGA TEBAWUKANANGA! ERA BATUKUZA BATUGAMBA OBUFUMBO KUGUMINKIRIZA NAKUSONYIWAGANA KATI NYINZANTYA! NGA 23/O4/78 TUGENDA KUBA KA NGA TUGYAGUZA BUFUMBO BWABWE NANGE MWENAGIRA. TELI KWAWUKANA MUBUFUMBO.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAha Rob, tetwogera kukwawukana mu bufumbo!!!!!! Ekyo tekiri mu kukkiriza wadde okwa nyaffe Buganda nga eggwanga, yadde mu nzikiriza ya batume. Twogera ku bano ba kirerese, ba nkejje zaala mbisi! Ku ba ekitalya mmere, ekitaggwaawo. Abo betwogerako naawe!

Meli lwaaki opapa okuweza olukumi lekayo emu otusse kubunkenke nga tulinda ddi lwolituuka , ekilala okujjako ngooba Rambo okulowooza nti oyinza okuyita omuntu omulala erinnya lyooyo omulala gwooba ofunye nga muli wakati mukuwangana amasaza ate nokikola with extra passion obeera wamukisa kuba akaseera ako kizibu oli okuba namaanyi age mpologoma era amaliriza ali paralyzed, wewaawo oba ofunye 2 in 1 obudabudibwa noku movinga on but in a cruel kind of way kino kyetaaga nga munno naye wamusanze oba ngo linako gwomumanyiiko gwabojjerera ebbali

Meli wrote:

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They say that to love, you have to be ready to say goodbye. Tell us about the best way you'd prefer someone to beak up with you, or the words you yourself use, have used, or would use if the need arises, or would advise a friend to use. :dry: :unsure: :unsure:

Unless there is good enough a reason to breakup,like getting caught in silly acts,finding out that your partner is a cheat etc, most reasons dont warrant breakups.

However, like the Kiganda saying "Ekyazze kiba kizze",and if the relationship is not to work,walking out of it before its too late is always advisable.

And let's not forget that pushing for more chances and trials used to be the norm for our grandparents,but now that times have changed, so has human race.

I for one always prefer damage control to damage repair,and Saving yourself an emotional meltdown and regrets,will be a better option than healing a broken heart.

Then this takes us back to our question.How best can one drop the bombshell???

Honestly speaking,I am inexperienced in "dumping",and cant remember if anyone ever dumped me,but my imagination soldier tells me I would do with saying things along these lines:-

I would seriously consider bringing it up to my partner, that

"..............considering recent events and run-up today, you have been behaving/acting in suspicious ways/with examples like yesterday and the other day when you did this an that, and then I saw a text message on your phone/then that guy called your apartment, not knowing I was there and he was saying things I couldnt imagine you being party to/ remember when you called me Jimmy while doing IT ,whereas you know Jimmy is not included in my 1st, middle and last name,and I dont remember telling you its my nickname.

So given those reasons and more,I think it is best we both take a step back,reflect and re-think,if this relationship is good and healthy for both of us. I suggest we give each other breathing and manouvering space, to reflect on what may be best, because there is a very handsome chance one of us would get hurt,and so scary as it sounds,the more I look at it,the more I realise that "that one of us" might be ME"!

Awo watya?

In as much as your motive here is to get out of it early enough, it will not sound as bad as dropping a bombshell the Kalibatanya style.