Happy Valentine's day to all lovers on this forum and those who hope to become till then. May your hearts forever be whole and warm with tender feelings mutual with those of your subject of affection.
Mwenna mbagalizza olunaku lwa bagalana mwenna abali wano ku connect mu kuume omukwaano mubuli ngeri yonna kuba nebwe gukujjula gutya teguzitowa ,you can't get enough of it, makes you day dream and weak, makes you marinate your soul with love, you don't want to take love for granted cherish every minute of it , Love is that feeling which makes purl with passion, and the freaking magic full of feelings
It is about time to give your chatroom love a rose
THE Internet is fast changing the way we find love in Uganda, totally redefining conventional and traditional ways of dating. If you are the busy type, love could only be a computer click away this Valentine’s Day. Simon Ocen examines the new phenomenon of finding love on the Internet.
Much as we all have to work, we also need time off for leisure.
This valentine, if you find yourself hanging out alone in want of company, simply log on to the Internet, click on google search and type in chat room and then you will find a myriad of equally interesting people to chat with.
The vast class of chat rooms include; student chat rooms, business chat rooms, teenage chat rooms, adult chat rooms, christian chat rooms, politics chat rooms and sports chat rooms and the most sought after is the singles chat room.
Chat rooms are the Internet’s third most used application behind e-mail and the web, with over ten million people chatting daily.
With singles chat rooms you could find yourself a partner. Enter the chat room and draw out your best lines.
But with the chat room, the rule is never give up until you get what you want.
Chat rooms are good confidence boosters and an alternative to having your name, e-mail and phone number They are private as you pick your username. You will meet people from different tribes; some you will make friends with, others dislike and one or more you get infatuated with.
Once you meet this person you are infatuated with, one thing leads to another.
If you are so much into each other; at this point the forces of traditional old fashioned dating set in, you get to exchange e-mails and later possibly pictures.
If you both like what you see, then you can exchange phone numbers: at this point you start serious dating. I sampled a few chat rooms which include; Friend Finder. Com, Community Person.Com and many others.
Singles chat rooms are extremely addictive once you get hooked, it is like nicotine to a smoker.
When I logged onto Friend Finder.Com and two other chat rooms for one week at random times of the day; I discovered that the same user names appeared in the chat rooms about 80% of the time.
These users could easily identify a new user since they are one big family divided into cliques. For them to let you into their inner circle, you have to either use a female user name or a male, with a catch user name say “mazongoto”.
The users in Find a Friend.com are always warm to new users, shun any user of profane language and are resident in Uganda.
That is not to mention the deception that goes in there. A friend swears he will never dare log into a chat room again; he bitterly asserts that this girl made him a believer she had the most exquisite features and got him racking his brains out; he visualised a picture of American R&B star Beyonce or model Tyra Banks after bowing to her endless doses of reassurances.
However, upon meeting her, she looked like Martin Lawrence playing big mama in ‘Big Mama’s House’. This revelation sent me laughing to stitches like a horde of excited hyenas.
But, like anything else in life, chat rooms have their shortcomings. Most chat rooms are not moderated so profane language is used.
They are a source of pedophiles who disguise themselves as children, lure children to meet them and often sexually abuse them.
Chat rooms in general, are fun, interactive and sociablebut the singles one’s are not for the faint hearted.
Thursday 14th.feb.2008 is around the corner But I can still see Single CHARACTERS LIKE Jeena Julia,Sebbo Omu...,n'abalala, ate nga kati Twandibadde JeenaLuutu,oba J.bJulia. THIS Day is meant to be for lovers but not for singles.
Mujjewo ekyeejo mwetikke obumuli obwo bwemutiimbye mu forum,mubutwalile abagaalwa bamwe,,,bun'abawotonako nga mubutimbye ku connect.
Jeena,tegeeza banno bonna nti ye saawa okutwalila ebyebbeyi byamwe omukwaano...mubisamulize wamma nabyo bisiime abaffa baffe.Mumwo mwe mugambye nti omukwaano teguzitowa.
SOME TIPS HOW TO IMPRESS SOMEONE ON VALENTINE'S DAY;
1;Stay at home
2;hire a nanny
3;put on less
4;talk less but act endlessly
5;make sure tha you have enough linnen next to you
6;Ezilama must be 7(enkuumbi)
7;No mobile phones but stay on connect because Mike will be there to play your favourite love songs.